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		<title>By: Lisis</title>
		<link>http://www.questforbalance.com/2009/11/19/mental-illness-the-sun-also-rises-barely/comment-page-1/#comment-10120</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 15:58:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Katie, that is exactly what I&#039;m talking about. There is a time, when we hit rock bottom, and all our thoughts conspire against us, and even the most irrational decisions seem sound when we are trapped inside our own head. At THAT moment, we simply cannot rely on ourselves to get through. It&#039;s not about being strong enough, or smart enough, or independent, or capable, or anything. It is just the time when we must trust in someone else. And if we don&#039;t have one of those wonderful people around, then we must trust in something deeper and greater than ourselves.

I can&#039;t tell you how many potentially awful mistakes were avoided because I deferred to a friend&#039;s judgment instead of my own. And, you are right, it wasn&#039;t just my life at stake, it was my son&#039;s too! Good for you, for trusting in others, and I am SO glad you have those friends to rely on when you need them.

Thanks for sharing your story!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Katie, that is exactly what I&#8217;m talking about. There is a time, when we hit rock bottom, and all our thoughts conspire against us, and even the most irrational decisions seem sound when we are trapped inside our own head. At THAT moment, we simply cannot rely on ourselves to get through. It&#8217;s not about being strong enough, or smart enough, or independent, or capable, or anything. It is just the time when we must trust in someone else. And if we don&#8217;t have one of those wonderful people around, then we must trust in something deeper and greater than ourselves.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t tell you how many potentially awful mistakes were avoided because I deferred to a friend&#8217;s judgment instead of my own. And, you are right, it wasn&#8217;t just my life at stake, it was my son&#8217;s too! Good for you, for trusting in others, and I am SO glad you have those friends to rely on when you need them.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing your story!!</p>
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		<title>By: Katie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 15:51:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trust was the biggest lesson I learned when I went through a horrific bout of depression 5 years ago. 30+ medications in 16 months, and four hospitalizations, all while trying to single parent.  The only way I made it through?  My friends, and their judgment.  Their judgment calls might have been different from my own, but their decisions were sound and made with much love and intelligence.

As I&#039;ve gone forward, working to keep depression at bay, my friends are my barometer and my compass, letting me know where I am and when I&#039;m slipping.  I trusted them with my life, and more importantly, my children.

I never knew how deep love ran until I hit bottom.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trust was the biggest lesson I learned when I went through a horrific bout of depression 5 years ago. 30+ medications in 16 months, and four hospitalizations, all while trying to single parent.  The only way I made it through?  My friends, and their judgment.  Their judgment calls might have been different from my own, but their decisions were sound and made with much love and intelligence.</p>
<p>As I&#8217;ve gone forward, working to keep depression at bay, my friends are my barometer and my compass, letting me know where I am and when I&#8217;m slipping.  I trusted them with my life, and more importantly, my children.</p>
<p>I never knew how deep love ran until I hit bottom.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 17:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Dot! Well, it looks like we&#039;ve got ourselves an unusual bond, huh? Particularly with schizophrenia. I find that most people have heard of depression and bipolar enough, but schizophrenia is still pretty much misunderstood... and hard to explain. I wish you didn&#039;t have to deal with it, but it&#039;s neat to know someone else understands.

I&#039;m heading over to read your story now...

:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Dot! Well, it looks like we&#8217;ve got ourselves an unusual bond, huh? Particularly with schizophrenia. I find that most people have heard of depression and bipolar enough, but schizophrenia is still pretty much misunderstood&#8230; and hard to explain. I wish you didn&#8217;t have to deal with it, but it&#8217;s neat to know someone else understands.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m heading over to read your story now&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Dot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 16:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Then I guess you wouldn&#039;t like living in the DC area, where it&#039;s almost always overcast and you can&#039;t see any shadows or where the sun is.  I had to buy a compass, myself.

&quot;In my immediate family, I have dealt with depression, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia...&quot;  Me, too!  My Dad, brother and uncle - bipolar, my sister - schizophrenic, myself - severe depression, my mother - never diagnosed.  I&#039;ve written about it on my blog under the category &quot;My Story.&quot;
.-= Dot&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://deeperissues.net/personal/full-disclosure/comment-page-1/#comment-3732&quot;&gt;Comment on Full Disclosure by Momisodes&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Then I guess you wouldn&#8217;t like living in the DC area, where it&#8217;s almost always overcast and you can&#8217;t see any shadows or where the sun is.  I had to buy a compass, myself.</p>
<p>&#8220;In my immediate family, I have dealt with depression, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia&#8230;&#8221;  Me, too!  My Dad, brother and uncle &#8211; bipolar, my sister &#8211; schizophrenic, myself &#8211; severe depression, my mother &#8211; never diagnosed.  I&#8217;ve written about it on my blog under the category &#8220;My Story.&#8221;<br />
<span class="cluv"> Dot&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://deeperissues.net/personal/full-disclosure/comment-page-1/#comment-3732">Comment on Full Disclosure by Momisodes</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.questforbalance.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Lisis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 14:53:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Sami! I really hope you won&#039;t have to deal with depression as a life-long companion. Although, if it turns out that you did inherit this particular family jewel, just know that it is very manageable. Like I said, in my family, I&#039;m the lucky one. Other mental illnesses are a much tougher challenge.

I wonder if your dad got into psychiatry BECAUSE of the family history? I&#039;ve often heard that mental health professionals get into that field because they struggle with those issues themselves (or in their lives). I have definitely thought about pursuing something along those lines when my homeschooling gig is up because, like your dad, I believe I could treat the mentally ill as people, without judging them for the actions they often cannot control.

I think it&#039;s awesome that he is able to do that for them now. Feel free to e me any time if you want to throw around the old depression convo (myquestforbalance at gmail dot com). Sometimes it helps just to get it out of your head.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Sami! I really hope you won&#8217;t have to deal with depression as a life-long companion. Although, if it turns out that you did inherit this particular family jewel, just know that it is very manageable. Like I said, in my family, I&#8217;m the lucky one. Other mental illnesses are a much tougher challenge.</p>
<p>I wonder if your dad got into psychiatry BECAUSE of the family history? I&#8217;ve often heard that mental health professionals get into that field because they struggle with those issues themselves (or in their lives). I have definitely thought about pursuing something along those lines when my homeschooling gig is up because, like your dad, I believe I could treat the mentally ill as people, without judging them for the actions they often cannot control.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s awesome that he is able to do that for them now. Feel free to e me any time if you want to throw around the old depression convo (myquestforbalance at gmail dot com). Sometimes it helps just to get it out of your head.  <img src='http://www.questforbalance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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